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~ Verla Wade @ AskVerla ©2026 Optimizing words. Elevating wisdom.         We’re closing out the first week of 2026.  A new year is like a blank book. 12 chapters, 365 pages, 4 seasons, 8,760 hours.    You are the author.    This is your year and your book.  Ultimately you write it - the choice is yours - filled with unlimited possibilities!   Here’s to you writing the most fabulous story filled with success, dignity, and beauty for yourself and others.  And until we connect

Moment by moment we are making decisions. Yes—even doing nothing is a choice. Some of us stall, drowning in data until analysis paralysis takes over. Others decide quickly, confident we can course-correct as we learn more. And some of us hesitate, worried a single decision might rattle a relationship we depend on, trapped in mental gridlock.